Blog by Harini
When I made the decision to study at the University of Edinburgh, I knew I was embarking on a journey that would take me far from home. Nonetheless, I was beyond excited to explore a new place, learn independent experiences and develop as an individual. However, that wasn’t without it challenges: homesickness, identity crisis and occasional loneliness.
Being born and raised in London, I grew up immersed in the Tamil culture, surrounded by a close-knit South Asian community. My family’s first-generation immigrant experience shaped my identity and gave me a deep connection to the traditions, food, and music that once defined my everyday lives.
But Edinburgh, with its historic streets and stunning landscapes, promised new opportunities and adventures. As excited as I was, I quickly realised that moving to this beautiful city also meant leaving behind the cultural and familial comforts that had always been part of my life.
Bridging Two Worlds
In Edinburgh, I discovered that finding Tamil food or cultural activities wasn’t easy. Unlike London, with its abundance of Tamil shops and community events, I had to adapt. My connection to my roots now came through smaller, more intentional acts such as bringing my mum’s home-cooked meals and snacks back from trips to London, introducing my friends to Tamil movies and music while also rewatching nostalgic Tamil movies alone, and celebrating special events with my friends like Diwali, Pongal, and Sri Lankan New Year.
Sharing my culture in this way became a bridge between my two homes. Watching my friends enjoy a classic Tamil movie or try the spicy snacks I’d brought back gave me a sense of pride and joy. It was my way of keeping my heritage alive, even in a place where it wasn’t as readily accessible.
Edinburgh as a Second Home
Although I miss aspects of my Tamil community in London, Edinburgh has its own charm that has slowly made it feel like home. As a history lover, the Holyrood Palace, architecture around the city and the greenery across the city has been comforting that helped form a sense of a second home and familiarity.
From the breathtaking view at Arthur’s Seat to the cozy cafes where I study, the city offers a sense of warmth and inspiration. I’ve come to appreciate the diversity of my peers, their stories, and the cultural exchange that happens when we share our backgrounds with one another.
Advice for Others Navigating Two Homes
For anyone bridging two worlds, my biggest advice is to embrace the journey. Bring pieces of your culture with you, whether it’s recipes, music, or traditions, and don’t be afraid to share them with others. It’s also okay to miss home – it’s a sign of how much it means to you. But along the way, try to discover and fall in love with the uniqueness of your new environment.
While this is easier said than done, and you’ll face struggles in trying to figure out who you are and who you’ll become, that is what makes this journey exciting!
Reflections on Home
In the end, I’ve learned that “home” isn’t just one place—it’s a blend of all the experiences, people, and traditions that shape you. My journey between London and Edinburgh has made me realise that I carry my identity with me, no matter where I go. It’s in the stories I share, the meals I savour, and the songs I listen to on my way to university and at home.
Living between two worlds isn’t always easy, but it’s a gift. It’s given me the chance to grow, to share, and to find belonging in new and unexpected places. It’s especially helped me feel unique and special – it makes me who I am and that is what matters the most.
